I know it’s a silly question, but it’s one that actually means a lot to us as we grow up.
Think of it this way… how many people are actually able to become what they wanted to be since they were kids?? Or how many people do you think change their mind, at least once, about the career that they want to pursue??
We as teenagers/young adults have a huge amount of pressure from either our parents, grandparents, and/or peers to know, and be 100% sure of what we want to do when we “grow up”. In other words we are supposed to be certain about what we all want to do for the rest of our lives by the time we are out of high school. Which for some people might be true. And they may know what that career or path is for them. …But what about the rest of us??
These days there are just sooo many options for us when trying to choose a career we want. Whether it is becoming a musician, a doctor, or a news anchor. There is just tons of them. There are also careers that a few years back didn’t even exist. Or stuff we hadn’t even heard of before. So to some extent, the idea of making and “informed” decision is MUCH harder than it seems.
We may have an idea of what we want to become, but don’t really know how to get there. Or maybe we have already thought of making a choice, but we aren’t completely convinced that it is the right one.
I am writing this not with the intent to freak you out or anything… but rather because I want to give you guys a bit of advice. Hopefully you’ll find it helpful.
Try not to be scared when choosing a career. Or sorry, let me rephrase that… It is okay to be scared to some extent when trying to choose a career that you want to pursue. The problem comes when you let “being scared” paralyze you and you create lots of pressure and stress for yourself. Don’t over think it. (I know that is much easier said that done. Believe me… I went through this myself.) But just go with an option that you think would suit you best, that makes you happy, and that you feel that you’d really like. And by that I don’t mean not to do any research on what that career may be. But rather, do the research, know what the career entails, and find out if it’ll get you where you want to be in the long run. After choosing a career, even if you aren’t a 100% sure about it, the best thing you can do is to give it you all!! Even if you feel like it’s not the right thing for you.
I know that sounds like something your parents would say… but it’s true. I’m speaking from experience. When I first started my university life, I went into a faculty that for the longest time I thought was meant for me. Even as a kid, I saw myself in a job like that… but as it turned out, it really just didn’t make me happy. So after a year, I decided to switch my undergrad to something that was totally on the other side of the spectrum. And surprisingly, now I know that my second choice is exactly what I want to be.
So what I’m trying to say is, that whether you want to be a comedian, or a lawyer, or maybe even a superhero, don’t doubt yourself!!
Give yourself the chance to try it out and see if it is in fact what you wanted and expected. It if works out great!! But if not, that is still good. It gave you a chance to find out more about yourself. And remember… there is always time to try something new!!








